[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.etage.cz\/muzi-nestydte-se-za-slzy\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.etage.cz\/muzi-nestydte-se-za-slzy\/","headline":"Mu\u017ei, nesty\u010fte se za slzy","name":"Mu\u017ei, nesty\u010fte se za slzy","description":"Mu\u017ei jsou spole\u010dnost\u00ed pova\u017eov\u00e1ni za to tvrd\u0161\u00ed pohlav\u00ed. Je jim od mali\u010dka vtlouk\u00e1no do hlavy, \u017ee mus\u00ed b\u00fdt chlapem, a […]","datePublished":"2022-06-30","dateModified":"2023-05-01","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.etage.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.etage.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/a4f7f6499f3b2a0764d0773f1f5d74780987cfbea7e736c0e74f6185bb257971?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/a4f7f6499f3b2a0764d0773f1f5d74780987cfbea7e736c0e74f6185bb257971?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"etage.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.etage.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/people-2566201_640.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.etage.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/people-2566201_640.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.etage.cz\/muzi-nestydte-se-za-slzy\/","about":["Mu\u017ei"],"wordCount":437,"articleBody":"Mu\u017ei jsou spole\u010dnost\u00ed pova\u017eov\u00e1ni za to tvrd\u0161\u00ed pohlav\u00ed. Je jim od mali\u010dka vtlouk\u00e1no do hlavy, \u017ee mus\u00ed b\u00fdt chlapem, a chlapi p\u0159ece nebre\u010d\u00ed. Jen\u017ee potla\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed emoc\u00ed je \u0161kodliv\u00e9 u \u017een i u mu\u017e\u016f. t\u00edm, \u017ee bude kdokoliv potla\u010dovat emoce, rozhodn\u011b nebude tvrd\u0161\u00ed ani odoln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed v\u016f\u010di stresu. Sp\u00ed\u0161 naopak – nahromad\u011bn\u00e9 a potla\u010dovan\u00e9 emo\u010dn\u00ed probl\u00e9my se \u010dasem zhor\u0161uj\u00ed a mohou b\u00fdt spou\u0161t\u011b\u010dem psychick\u00fdch poruch. I mu\u017ei mus\u00ed pou\u0161t\u011bt emoce, a\u0165 jsou pozitivn\u00ed nebo negativn\u00ed – jako je strach, \u00fazkost, smutek nebo vztek.S emocemi se mus\u00ed pracovat od d\u011btstv\u00edT\u011b\u017eko \u0159\u00edct, pro\u010d se v na\u0161\u00ed spole\u010dnosti st\u00e1le dr\u017e\u00ed stereotypy typu \u017ee mu\u017ei nebre\u010d\u00ed a \u017eeny jsou n\u011b\u017en\u00e9 kv\u011btinky, na kter\u00e9 se sta\u010d\u00ed o\u0161kliv\u011b pod\u00edvat, a hned se rozbre\u010d\u00ed nebo maj\u00ed probl\u00e9m. U obou pohlav\u00ed se objevuj\u00ed r\u016fzn\u00e9 vzorce chov\u00e1n\u00ed, a je to tak spr\u00e1vn\u011b. Nikdo nevyr\u016fst\u00e1 podle \u0161ablony a ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 jinou povahu. Je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 o emoc\u00edch otev\u0159en\u011b mluvit, a p\u0159estat si nalh\u00e1vat, \u017ee mu\u017ei bre\u010det nemohou. V\u011bt\u0161ina mu\u017e\u016f se sna\u017e\u00ed slzy udr\u017eet do posledn\u00ed vte\u0159iny, jen\u017ee to nen\u00ed dob\u0159e. Mu\u017ei zkr\u00e1tka pl\u00e1\u010dou, tak to bylo a bude. U\u017e v ran\u00e9m d\u011btstv\u00ed se u\u010d\u00edme chovat, v\u0161t\u011bpuje se n\u00e1m, co je podle spole\u010dnosti dob\u0159e a co \u0161patn\u011b. Tak je to v po\u0159\u00e1dku, ale m\u011blo by to prob\u00edhat v n\u011bjak\u00fdch mez\u00edch. I dnes jsou kupodivu kluci vychov\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed v mnoha rodin\u00e1ch t\u00edmto stylem, a to nen\u00ed dob\u0159e. Nenau\u010d\u00ed se spr\u00e1vn\u011b pracovat s emocemi, a potom s t\u00edm m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt probl\u00e9my i v partnersk\u00fdch vztaz\u00edch.Pro\u010d by vlastn\u011b mu\u017e nem\u011bl bre\u010det, kdy\u017e to c\u00edt\u00ed a pot\u0159ebuje? Jsou slzy n\u011bco \u0161patn\u00e9ho? Kdy\u017e je u\u010d\u00edme je nepou\u017e\u00edvat, k \u010demu jim jsou? Slzy jsou pot\u0159eba a vybre\u010det se nap\u0159\u00edklad u narozen\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte, \u017e\u00e1dosti o ruku nebo po ne\u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00e9m t\u00fddnu v pr\u00e1ci naopak pom\u00e1h\u00e1 uvolnit nap\u011bt\u00ed. Pokud je to jenom tro\u0161ku mo\u017en\u00e9, nesm\u011bjte se mu\u017e\u016fm za slzy, a\u0165 je jejich d\u016fvod jak\u00fdkoliv. A u\u010dte sv\u00e9 d\u011bti aby se chovaly stejn\u011b – nen\u00ed v po\u0159\u00e1dku se sm\u00e1t emoc\u00edm, a\u0165 jsou jak\u00e9koliv.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.3\/5 - (11 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Mu\u017ei, nesty\u010fte se za slzy","item":"https:\/\/www.etage.cz\/muzi-nestydte-se-za-slzy\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]